Conversations for men
Dave If there is one thing that I am certain about then it is my belief that we as individuals need to do ongoing introspection, evaluation and adjustments to ourselves as people. This for me is a given…but I will concede today, that it is not always the easiest of tasks. There is no other being … Read more
I know it has been a while since I last posted, but so much life has happened in the last few weeks… Let me start off by telling you, or rather, let me start off by asking you something…do you know that place where your soul, your body and your mind is just happy and … Read more
So…just like all of you, I have lost many loved ones in my life, nothing new or strange about that, but there were two losses that were particularly difficult to deal with, that threw me for a loop. The first was a best friend back at school, a gentle giant with a heart of gold … Read more
What are you running from? Do you really think you can outrun your past? Do you really think you can outrun your heartache?? Do you really think you can outrun your true self??? Why would you want to run away from these things? You need to STOP!! FEEL it all, identify it, and through feeling … Read more
I was sitting here this morning looking through some of the Facebook posts that I have shared over the last 2 years or so… I realized that I have been on a journey – a hectic journey actually – one that has required me to be brave, to step out of my comfort zone and … Read more
So guys … what have you done for yourself lately? Yes, just for YOU!! When last did you just go out and buy a new shirt, or treat yourself to a good meal or do something that makes you happy? We are allowed to do that kind of thing you know… it is normal and … Read more
A morbid topic I know, but nevertheless one that really needs to be spoken about and understood by all. So I get that some people think it is an act of cowardice, it is a sin, it is unforgivable and you will go straight to hell for it. At the same time it is very … Read more
Yes on the third Sunday in June, we celebrate a day in SA that is known as Father’s Day!! To all our dads out there HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!! I hope that you all have a wonderful day with your children and that you are spoilt with the gift of their presence and their company, no … Read more
Men don’t talk about issues and problems that they may be facing…why? Because from little you are taught that boys are tough, they are strong and brave and they must protect their moms and sisters. To be this strong, brave man you can’t be seen as soft and emotional, so no crying allowed, no feeling … Read more
Yes, there you go dude, you are a man and as such you are expected to behave in a certain manner, perform certain roles and functions and in case no one ever told you this…it is a lifelong juggling act, you may not drop the ball and mess this up! You have 1 chance and … Read more